A few other times he had some near misses, the ball was following him but all in all he did great.
Today for Show and Tell, I've brought a tiny marvel of nature: a single snowflake. I think we might all learn a lesson from how this utterly unique and exquisite crystal turns into an ordinary, boring molecule of water, just like every other one, when you bring it in the classroom. And now, while the analogy sinks in, I'll be leaving you drips and going outside." ~ Calvin, from Calvin & Hobbes
Sunday, August 24, 2008
First game
A few other times he had some near misses, the ball was following him but all in all he did great.
Saturday, August 23, 2008
Unconscious Mutterings
- Cry :: baby
- Stretch :: marks
- Efficient :: running smoothly
- Brunch :: champagne
- Afro :: 70's
- Preheat :: oven
- Delicious :: pizza
- Global warming :: Al Gore
- Actions :: speak louder than words
- Ride :: like the wind Bullseye
These are truly unconscious, I am so wiped out. We had a late night/morning and spent several hours at the baseball field.
I am heading to bed...
spanking again
I guess being 8 days late isn't making me too mean :)
Today we have been working on house cleaning, you have no idea how messy this place was.
I was cleaning in Cassie's room, that room will probably take a few days to weed through, I barely made a dent.
Anyway he told me that he gets a whooping if his room gets that messy. I told him I'm sorry and I don't believe in spanking. He said that he is afraid to make a mistake or get in trouble at school because they paddle you there too.
He said that first they call your parents to see if you deserve one. I am so appalled by this, it is totally barbaric.
I said that NOBODY deserves to get hit. He said he wished the president would make a rule against it. I told him that even if he did many parents would still hit their kids.
We talked a little more, he said he gets grounded sometimes too.
I told him I don't really think that is a great thing either. I said what does it do? What do you learn from it? He said nothing except that he is scared to do anything wrong. He is a kid and is going to do things *wrong*
I know I'm beating a dead horse but I firmly believe that hitting is wrong and that nobody has the right to hit someone, especially a child.
Friday, August 22, 2008
meeting people
Cassie is in soccer now and practice is twice a week, on Tuesday a mom introduced herself to me and all the while Jared and I talked with her older son.
I felt totally cool and comfortable with them, we met her dh too.
Today I saw her again and we sat next to each other and just talked freely.
Guess what?
DUH!
They are homeschoolers from day one, kids never in school. She is very relaxed, they have some curriculum around but she learned that they don't do well if they follow it. They are very go with the flow people, not unschoolers but a relaxed, not uptight homeschooler is awesome to find.
We are just getting to know each but we have many commonalities already.
For one she is a believer but doesn't go to church, how cool is that? We talked briefly about God and that we both believe it's about personal relationship opposed to institutions. I told her about Gatto, she didn't know of him, my book is loaned out but when I get it back I'll loan it to her.
Just one of those people that I felt connected with, I love that, we'll see how time goes on, we might become good friends.
Say what?
I know I have already asked that question.
I am so predictably unpredictable according to Jason.
I can be 28 days, I can be a week late and I can skip it.
Who knows what it will be this time?
I am actually doing remarkably well I have been using progesterone cream for two months and now I'm exercising and eating better(mostly)
Last night I needed salt so I munched on fritos, I know great for my diet...
I am only having moments of PMS, I used to have 2 weeks of it non stop.
You can only use the cream from day 12-26 so when you are way past that and not freaking out it's all good.
Last week I said something and Jason put his hand up with one finger and then swirled his other hand around it in a circle, to demonstrate the world revolving around me.
I do tend to say things and how they affect ME.
Let's be REAL, if the world really revolved around me things would be very different :)
Hey this is my first hormonal post in awhile :)
It's not even bad...
Wednesday, August 20, 2008
Spanking in schools?
This is ridiculous!
I can't believe this is still going on today.
The cost
Glove $10
Helmet $10
Batting gloves $15
Gear bag $8
Cleats $30
Compression shorts $20
Socks $10
Pants $40
Used Bats $20
Waiting for son to go pro and take care of his parents... Priceless
Who knew baseball was so expensive???
We did get a deal on some of those items like the glove and helmet but the pants about put us over the edge.
Our 10 yr old boy is a big boy and needed mens pants. We found some online for a great price, followed the sizing chart and ordered them. They arrived yesterday and are way too big.
We have been everywhere around here and online but now there is no time to shop online.
Tonight Jason found a store with the right size waist so he bought them, they are long though.
Brennan is only 5 ft tall but his mid section is bigger than youth sizes.
Joking aside from my post he has talent, he was born with it and we want him to explore it and do what he wishes with it.
He was born to play sports, when he was just 8 months old he walked around the house batting a lego with a rattle.
Yes I said walked :)
He actually took his first steps at 7 mos. 3 weeks and was walking across the house at 8 months.
Anyway he loves all sports and can play most sports well.
Monday, August 18, 2008
First kiss
Saturday, August 16, 2008
Beautiful summer day
On the way home we saw a beautiful full moon, I tried to get a shot while driving but that wasn't happening.
Unconscious Mutterings
- Signature :: style
- Olympics :: China
- 100% :: give it my all
- Damn! :: I'm good
- Gold :: digger
- Fresh and natural :: organic fruit
- Fraction :: half
- Hurry :: speed
- Summer :: heat
- 29th :: Brennan's birthday
preaching to the choir
Tonight I was talking to Jason and he just kept nodding and saying uh huh.
I know he gets me, we are pretty much in sync with each other. The differences we have are minor, we agree on the major stuff in our lives.
So I told him that I don't have anyone to talk to besides him. I know he gets it but sometimes I just have to say it out loud.
I have come to the realization (maybe some of you are way ahead of me on this)
that if I want freedom of choice and certain rights that I have to extend that to everyone, even those that I completely disagree with.
This is a hard thing for me because I would just love to go around telling everyone what I think but I realize that I can't really do that.
For example, my parenting philosophy is very different than my neighbor. Our kids play together everyday so I have a frame of reference. We have talked about various things but we are so opposite on parenting and schooling that I do not bring it up.
Now when someone asks me what I think about something then I can share or sometimes a door opens and I can plant a seed. Otherwise I just work on being an example. That does work because I have been complemented more than once or twice.
I guess sometimes I just want to shout from my rooftop and other times I just want to hang out in my comfort zone and not deal with people.
Fall sports have begun and I have already witnessed a few parenting situations that have bothered me. I'm sure I'll see a lot more as the season progresses, well at least I'll have something to blog about.
One example, at one practice this little guy was getting ready to bat and he was talking to me, I was standing at the fence where he was waiting to hit. He didn't know who I was but he was so gung ho about being able to steal a base, this is the 9 and 10 yr old group. He went on to tell me all the times you are allowed to steal and he was so excited.
Well the little guy struck out, he cried and cried and sat down and cried some more.
His dad was on the field helping and he came in, I didn't hear what he said but his mom came over and yelled at him. He was told that he can't do that here and to get a hold of himself, he just said *I can't help it*
It was really sad, he went out in the field and playing resumed but he was still crying. I felt so bad for him because I knew how disappointed he was and noone acknowledged his feelings. He was just ridiculed for crying in baseball instead of asked why he was crying or even allowed to feel what he feels.
Now I realize that crying is looked down upon, especially among boys and definitely in sports but he just turned 9 for God's sake.
I'm not trying to pick on people, I think many parents just don't have any ideas except to follow traditional, mainstream parenting because that is what is readily available. There are people like me that go against the grain, that is how many of us have found each other.
Thursday, August 14, 2008
New logo
I was at Silvia's blog and saw the cool logo and followed the trail.
Here is the link to explain the logo.
In a nutshell the CA teacher's association believes that by ALLOWING parents to homeschool without credentials it will lead to educational anarchy.
BWHAAAAAAA!!!!
Go read the link it's good!
oops
I am down to one crystal glass now, I used to have so much crystal and they keep getting broken.
The good news is that nobody got cut and we all pitched in to clean it up.
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
Tea Party
She named her Sacagawea.
NOT back to school
Sunday, August 10, 2008
Blog award
Deanna gave me an award and now it's my turn to pass it on.Close to nature
Saturday, August 09, 2008
Unconscious Mutterings
- Month to month :: menstrual cycle
- Adjusted :: well adjusted
- Prank :: calls
- Mop :: the floor needs to be mopped
- Clarity :: explanation
- Parenting :: partnership
- Glenn :: Beck
- Fingerprint :: clue, dna, CSI
- Pineapple :: yuck
- Attorney :: general
Want to play?
bugging me
I have lots in my head but don't always get a chance to say it.
There is a commercial on the radio that I have heard everyday for at least a week and it is BUGGING me.
It's the total transformation, if your kid is defiant or talking back or having trouble in school or ADD or...
This program will fix your child. I was going to put in a link but I don't want to :)
You can google it.
A step by step program to change your child's behavior.
I don't know if this is legitimate, I don't know if it has merit or if it's just another thing that disrespects children.
In an odd way you would think someone like me with an intense child would be interested in this. The truth is when I hear claims like this it scares me and makes me just want to hug my child.
You see Jared has been exploding left and right lately, well he really has his whole life it's just that now he seems more intense.
Yes a 6 yr old that gets set off by something explodes, yells, kicks, throw things and uses profanity. Where did he learn it??? He has always exploded, yes we use some language around here but I have been very careful lately, he hears it from the music he likes.
He likes System of a Down and they have several songs that he likes and one of them uses the f word and I don't mean fart, man did I say that!?
You guys know that fart is a terrible word to me I don't really mind the other word that gets all of the attention :)
So what is my point???
Beats me!
I don't believe there is any program out there that is worth using to change my child. He is who he is, If you ask him he'll say that God made him that way and I believe he is right. It's my job to help him navigate his world and understand it and to get along in it. I will never try to change my child!
I know there are desperate parents out there who don't know where to turn and it saddens me that they look to "experts" to show them the way.
I feel for the parents but I really feel for the kids, I know from experience that helping an explosive child is challenging but it is worth the effort.
I remain calm now, I do not react, I let him get it out and I protect those around him and help him know that I am here and he can tell me anything.
My dear son just climbed into my lap, he really is a sweetie, the other day he called dibs on mom.
Don't know where that came from but they have been *calling dibs* on everything lately, me included :)
Tuesday, August 05, 2008
Writing
I have written some good stuff but I know in my attempt to get to the point that I miss out on a lot of description. I believe that part of that is my personality, I'm not a fluffy person I'm a straight forward person.
I was thinking tonight after posting for the blog carnival that my post seems so generic. Just like when I participated in Unschooling Voices, there is a topic and a deadline. I think it brings me back to school when I had to write an essay on a specific topic with so many words by a certain date.
How weird is that?
I never liked writing in school but I don't believe it's because I can't write because I can.
So in some bizarre twist I don't do well in the written form on the spot, go figure.
I know when I get sparked by something I can write just fine. I don't type 500 words a minute like some either and I have to look at the keys. Product of public school, I took typing...
My always unschooled son can type extremely fast without looking.
Stupid hang- ups I suppose.
I love unschooling, I love watching my kids learn and grow and make connections, it's so awesome. Sometimes I feel like I'm just along for the ride because the learning never stops. I just do what they need when they need it but they do the rest.
I wish I could put in writing what they do and all of the learning and growing and questions and answers that happen on a daily basis.
I'm not great at documentation, it's so much easier to go with the flow and not take notes.
I guess I'll work at it :)
Monday, August 04, 2008
Around here
Just a little glimpse into what we are doing, I took a few random pictures.
Fall ball just started so we are spending time at the baseball field and the boys have been fishing, there is a creek there and they have caught several fish.
We have been playing Clue, Monopoly Jr., poker, rummy, hit the deck, Uno, drawing, playing with legos, lots of imagination play, Club Penguin, WoW, watching youtube music videos.
Sunday, August 03, 2008
Unconscious Mutterings
- Crankiness :: normally I would say me but I'm not cranky right now
- Backpack :: Dora
- Clone :: Wars
- High ground :: moral
- Dreams :: In my dreams, Dokken song
- Lovingly :: Jason
- Mistake :: oops
- Carson :: Johnny
- Errand :: run
- Dozen :: Cheaper by the
Saturday, August 02, 2008
Jared's City
Thursday, July 31, 2008
15 pounds
My clothes are looser and people can tell so I wanted to *see it* I can see a little bit in the photos.
Today's groove
but still need some improvement.
THE DAILY GROOVE ~ by Scott Noelle
www.enjoyparenting.com/dailygroove::
Creator, or Reactor?
::An understanding of *power* is needed to become an
effective human being. So children are instinctively
driven to discover the nature of power, and they look
to their parents for clues.
Our children especially notice our *reactions*.When we react to something, that thing appears to
have power.
Whether you react positively (like when someone gives you flowers) or negatively (like when you see a big spider in your house), you are teaching your child that those things are powerful.
* When you worry about a possession, you give it power.
* When you are offended by certain words, you give them power.
* When you react to something in the news, you give it power.
* When you react to your child's behavior, you give it power.
Today, notice your reactions and consider what they might be teaching your child about power. By being creative rather than reactive, you can demonstrate that Authentic Power comes from within.
http://www.dailygroove.net/reacting
Feel free to forward this message to your friends!
(Please include this paragraph and everything above.)Copyright (c) 2008 by Scott Noelle
Sunday, July 27, 2008
Birthday sleepover fishing trip
Unconscious Mutterings
- Memory :: card
- Original :: me
- Exclusively :: only for you
- Listings :: realtor
- Bucket :: list
- Knight :: round table
- Dusty :: my house
- Choice :: everything is a choice
- Sunlight :: vitamin D
- Change of plans :: flexible
Thursday, July 24, 2008
Learn Nothing Day
Jared woke up and sat up in bed and asked me for his space book and some paper. He drew the different shapes that the moon makes before he even got out of bed.
I really hope that people out there who don't get unschooling have a wake up call.
You know the phrase *shit happens*
Well *learning happens*
You can't stop it, it's as natural as breathing, at least for my kids it is.
Always unschooled kids who were never told what, when, or how to learn, live and learn naturally.
To stop learning is to stop living.
Happy Learn Nothing Day!
I assume we all failed :)
Sunday, July 20, 2008
12 down 38 to go
I have been using the treadmill since Weds. I am doing 2 miles a day, one mile at a time. I increase my speed a little each time, I started at 1.8 mph and just did 3 mph a few minutes ago.
I figure in a few days I try to increase my distance but I am sweating profusely and breathing hard by the last 1/4 mile.
Jason said he is very impressed with me because I am making my goals and keeping them.
I am determined to lose weight and eat healthy and be healthy.
My blood pressure has gone down too, it's no where near as high as it was a few weeks ago. I think that the UTI raised my BP also, I must have had a bladder infection for awhile. I went to that clinic in town for my respiratory illness and they didn't even check my urine. I thought that was pretty routine and my BP was high there.
I have been taking Hawthorne Berries twice a day for my BP and I go back to my doc on Weds. for a follow up.
Anyway I am working hard at this and not giving up.
Unconscious Mutterings
- Flicker :: Lightning bugs
- Styling :: my hair
- Episode :: Jared, Cassie, me we all have episodes
- Sexier :: than who?
- Studious :: looking
- Mushroom :: yuck, barf, gag, texture issues, ewwww
- 8 minutes :: for what? I hate waiting!
- Bald :: eagle
- Immunity :: unrealistic
- Sectioned :: church
Want to play Luna Nina
Saturday, July 19, 2008
finished
It's an awesome look at relationships and it is worth reading.
I'm still in awe, I don't want to give any details away but if you are looking outside of the institutional church box then this book is for you.
late birthday present
I highly recommend not buying from hobby tron, their customer service sucks.
Friday, July 18, 2008
My flowers bloomed
These are the lilies that Jason and the kids got me for mother's day last year. Jason planted them and they actually grew and bloomed gorgeous flowers.
Little pet peeve
I'm following him, you can't really pass on that road and we are getting up to where I need to turn and he turns the way I'm going.
UGH!
The speed limit on this road is 45mph and he managed to get up to 30mph.
Patience is not my strong suit but I get so irritated when people go that far UNDER the speed limit.
I was saying please God I can't be behind this guy, I'll lose my mind. There are places to pass on this road but the cars kept coming.
Then finally dotted lines and no cars, I stepped on the gas and flew away.
Ah freedom :)
I'm all for being safe but holding up the flow of traffic isn't safe either.
I'm not a speed racer, well I do like to drive fast and only do it when appropriate.
I usually go about 5mph over the limit because the cops in this town will get ya.
I did get a ticket in PA when I was pregnant with Jared and it was my first offense EVER and I was treated like a common criminal. Bad experience.
Anyway I think speed limits should be guidelines not Law but that's another story...
If you want to drive slow pull over and let us by, pretty simple.
Monday, July 14, 2008
Yum
CRUST:
3 1/2 c. grated zucchini
3 eggs, beaten
1/3 c. flour
1/2 c. grated Mozzarella
1/2 c. grated Parmesan
1/2 tsp. basil, minced
Salt and pepper
PIZZA TOPPING:
Tomato sauce
Cheese, etc.
Salt zucchini lightly and let sit 15 minutes. Squeeze out all excess moisture. Combine crust ingredients and spread onto an oiled 9x13 inch baking pan. Bake 20-25 minutes at 350 degrees until surface is dry and firm. Brush top with oil and broil it under moderate heat for 5 minutes.
Pile all of your favorite pizza toppings on and heat in a 350 degree oven for about 25 minutes. Serve hot
I just made this tonight and it's really good. I was really hungry and really missing pizza and I have PMS so I had to make something good and keep in line with my diet.
I put on homemade sauce, whole milk mozzerella and drunken goat cheese, yes it is cured in wine and it is awesome, Whole Foods carries it. Those two cheeses are low on the acid scale, I did not use parmesan it is the most acidifying of all cheeses.
I added spinach, tomatoes and red onion. It was really good even Brennan liked it, Kieran didn't like it and Cassie wouldn't try it.
Sunday, July 13, 2008
Unconscious Mutterings
- Intimated :: scared
- Brush :: hair
- Masquerade :: ball
- Procedure :: no thanks
- Tattoos :: ink
- Square :: root
- Tuck :: in at night
- Boyfriend :: haven't had one of those in years
- Badass :: I used to be
- Thousand :: dollars
Luna Nina
Saturday, July 12, 2008
little update on me
I'm taking on a new lifestyle, I am changing my diet to be mostly fruits and vegetables and very little everything else, it's called an alkaline diet.
I won't bore you with all the details but I need to lose 40-50 pounds as soon as possible. I have already lost 10 this past week. My blood pressure is elevated and I have been monitoring it and trying to chill out.
They gave me a drug to take but it made me feel terrible, I am trying to treat this naturally, losing weight and eating right will help.
I am excited and nervous, I have been wanting to lose this weight that I've been carrying for a couple years now. I just didn't know where to begin.
I went to a holistic doctor and he has me taking supplements to help my digestive issues so I can eat this stuff.
I've been resting and watching movies and reading The Shack, why because I also had a UTI and I'm not sure if it's completely gone.
Jason bought a treadmill off of Craigslist so I will be starting an exercise routine also.
Burn that fat, woohoo!!!
Then maybe I'll post an updated picture of me since my profile pic is like 4 years old.
Actually I do have one up on myspace photo album from May.
So that's me, a little boring lately...
profound quote
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
Monday, July 07, 2008
cranky neighbors
My son was just going to set off a few bottlerockets and then be done with it.
We only set off a few the past couple nights. We live in a subdivision, the 4th and 5th sounded like we were in a war zone. Some people were setting off the loud ones that sound like gun shots. As a matter of fact I just heard some, I guess my son was an easy target.
He came in all long faced and sad being scolded by this guy.
UGH!!!
Don't you talk to my kids, you come talk to me!!!!!
So it's a little noise for a few days, get over it, turn your damn hearing aid off.
Unconscious Mutterings
- Notification :: I didn't get the memo
- Cheat :: liar
- Top Ten :: David Letterman
- Draft :: beer
- Unbelievable :: inconceivable
- Cheap :: thrill
- Spontaneous :: combustion
- Harass :: annoy
- Lipstick :: kiss
- Transpire :: the events of the day
Luna Nina
Saturday, July 05, 2008
Any takers?
I told him that I really don't know the answer to that.
Tuesday, July 01, 2008
Friends
I LOVE YA SISTA'!!!Girlfriend and Sister's Week
I am only as strong as the coffee I drink, the hairspray I use and the friends I have.
To the cool women that have touched my life. Here's to you!
funny stuff
I'm a Chevrolet Corvette!

You're a classic - powerful, athletic, and competitive. You're all about winning the race and getting the job done. While you have a practical everyday side, you get wild when anyone pushes your pedal. You hate to lose, but you hardly ever do.
Take the Which Sports Car Are You? quiz.