Unconscious Mutterings

1. Disguised :: a wolf disguised in sheeps clothing


2. Big wheel :: I had a big wheel when I was a kid


3. Irritating :: There are too many irritating things to list


4. Care :: I care about a lot of things


5. Grandpa :: I miss my grandpa


6. Shooting :: shooting for the moon


7. Sunglasses :: I always wear my sunglasses, I wear my sunglasses at night, so I so I can... damn now I have to look that song up


8. Stampede :: There was a stampede in Lion King


9. Painstakingly :: That is just a weird word


10. Terrible position :: Don't put me in a terrible position

I haven't done these in awhile.

Luna Nina

Reading progress

Almost a year ago I posted that Cassie read Green Eggs and Ham to me all by herself.

I thought that was it, I thought she was really reading.
Well it was just one more step, one more connection.

Over the past few months I have noticed her actually reading words that she sees while we are out. More recently she has been reading words from the online games that she plays.

Just the other day we went to the library, she wanted to check out some animal books. She wants to be a vet when she grows up, she loves animals and wants to take care of them.

We got in the van she opened up a book and read a whole sentence. She was so excited she couldn't contain herself.

As soon as we got home she ran in the house to read it to daddy too.

She keeps asking me to come to her room because she wants to read. She is doing really well, she gets stumped on words but that is normal.

She is actually reading words she didn't know, sounding out, guessing, figuring it out, she is trying.

It seemed like she just didn't want to try awhile back, I didn't force it, I just told her what it said when she asked me to read something to her.

She is so happy and I am thrilled.

She told me that she loves to read now but she didn't used to. I think it's because it was too hard before and now it's getting easier :)

WOOHOO CASSIE!!!!!

I will say it once again, you can't force reading and you really can't *teach* it.

The person has to have the connections and when it clicks, it clicks. Some kids take longer than others, it's ok, it's not a race. Forcing it is what causes learning disabilities and labels and feelings of inadequacy.

She is the last of my 4 to read and she isn't the youngest. Jared has been reading since he was 5, Kieran also, Brennan at age 9 and Cassie is 9 1/2.

Just like they all walked and talked in their time frame, they read when they are ready, without force, coersion and meaningless lessons.

Informal learning

Part of the experience

So last night Jason asked us if we wanted to drive to a dark road and watch the meteor showers.

It was after midnight and we hopped in the van and went driving.

The clouds started rolling in and we got a little discouraged, kept driving further to find a clear spot.

We finally pulled off the road and parked on the side, the clouds were dissipating and the moon was shining bright.

We saw a few meteors but the moon was so bright it was very difficult.

Then the voices started...

I'm tired
I'm hungry
I have to go to the bathroom
my neck hurts
when are we leaving
I want to go home...

Kieran blurts out *it's all part of the experience*

A la Chevy Chase, we use that phrase often on our family outings, it's always something, we are very real about it.

We got home about 1:15 am and all was well :)

Natural attachment

When I became a mother 14 years ago it was the best thing I ever did besides marrying Jason.

I had a little person that relied on me for everything, nourishment, safety, shelter, love etc.

I couldn't put him down, I held him, rocked him, nursed him, slept with him, carried him, talked to him, treated him like a person.

I couldn't bear to put him in another room in the house and he wouldn't let me. I barely used the bassinet by our bed.

We slept so well with him on our chest, usually mine after feeding and he slept on Jason alot.

Sleeping with our baby was a natural thing to do and subsequently all others followed suit.

My kids didn't use a crib and rarely used the bassinet, only for short stints.

It was just natural for me to nurse, sleep, carry etc.

I got really good at doing things one handed, I didn't have a sling, I didn't even know about them until I had a couple kids.

I didn't hear the term *attachment parenting* until I had been doing it for a long time. I called it *common sense parenting*

Of course I learned that many people didn't have common sense.

My kids and I have a bond, it is strong and unbreakable. We are connected, I've been realizing this lately.

Last night Cassie slept over at her friend's house for the first time. She tried a few months ago but called me to come get her. This time she called but said she was staying, she was nervous but wanted to stay.

She did stay, she had a blast, she is so tired now, she went to bed early. I just felt our connection even though we were apart. Jared missed her too, he got bored without her here, that is just sweet.

I never planned on sending my kids to school, it never crossed my mind. I didn't have kids to send them away.

I am so thankful to have my 4 beautiful babies home with me where they belong.

As they grow and start spreading their wings we will go through it together.

Animal School

Not back to school

School started here yesterday and we decided to go to the lake :)

It was a beautiful day, a hot day and a great day. We took Cassie's friend with us and they had a blast swimming most of the time.

The kids fished and played in the sand and swam. We hunted for feathers, Jared really wants a Robin feather. We didn't find one but we did find a Bluejay feather, so that was cool.

We brought a picnic and had a BBQ, the food was great. Jason took the day off and we had an awesome family outing.

Just a couple shots here of the kids, I'll post more on facebook.

Life is too short to waste it away in a cement building :)

News article about homeschoolers

New Yorker

Positive spin and sounds like they probaby unschool.

purpose

I know someone, it's a friend of a friend that was homeschooling.

She is putting her kids in school now.

She said something that is really sad.

She said that her son has been her whole world for 10 years and now she needs time to herself.

I don't know about you but kids are for life, they are not a part time endeavor. They aren't something you take care of for awhile and then pass them off to someone else.

I did not have kids to send them away. We decided before we had kids that I would stay home and public school was never an option.

I see it a lot, parents just non- chalantly pass off their kids here or there. Some people are so self absorbed and full of me me me that they shouldn't have kids.

You can not be a parent and be selfish.

Parenting for us is about family, it's sharing a journey, we are partners with our children.

Prison opens up here on Monday and so many of those parents are thrilled to get rid of their kids.

You meet them all over, they can't wait for school to start.

It's so sad, such a tragic thing to want your kids to be away, to allow government intervention into the family.

Unconscious Mutterings

1. Taxman :: abolish the IRS


2. Material :: fabric


3. Format :: format my hard drive


4. File cabinet :: I don't have one


5. Ignore :: I try to ignore stupid comments


6. Super! :: fabulous!


7. Fireproof :: safe


8. Blockbuster :: video


9. Snooper :: nosy person


10. Good will :: Hunting, store

Luna Nina

I missed last weeks list and I sure haven't blogged here much lately.

Too much stuff going on with me. I'm on facebook a lot though, look me up.

2nd Annual Learn Nothing Day

As unschoolers we know it's impossible to learn nothing, this day was started as un unschooling holiday. Go here for more info.

No matter how hard we try we just can't learn nothing.

This year we are spending the day at a park in eastern Tennessee with several unschoolers.

We are going somewhere we have never been and meeting people we have never met. I guarantee we will learn a lot. I'll remember to take pictures :)

It's going to be awesome to meet real live unschoolers!

Unconscious Mutterings

1. Independence :: Freedom


2. Meltdown :: the high humidity causes me to meltdown


3. Vulture :: What you want to do, I don't know, what you want to do, now don't start that again.


4. Hope :: we can hope for change...bwhaaa!!!!


5. Float :: in the pool


6. Hole :: in the wall


7. Trespass :: The sign says trespasser will be shot on sight


8. Moving :: right along


9. Extinct :: I don't want my beloved elephants to become extinct


10. Alligator :: boots

Luna Nina

Unconscious Mutterings

1. Guest :: be my guest


2. Impact :: sudden impact


3. Unplanned :: pregnancy


4. Tactic :: scare tactic


5. Delayed :: delayed gratification


6. Bombastic :: fireworks


7. Comfort :: comfort inn


8. Trumpet :: call


9. Joe :: schmoe


10. Budget :: deficit

Luna Nina

Cool picture story

Jared drew this yesterday, the bottom picture was first and then he did the 2nd and 3rd. He didn't do these at the same time or looking at the other picture.
I know this because he was looking for them all today, they were in different places in the house. He draws all over the place, not one location.

He said a mixture of Zelda and Runescape is what inspired these. I hope you can see how they connect.

I'm always in awe of his drawings. He will be turning 7 this weekend, I think he has real talent.

Jared

Sometimes you just gotta climb the walls.

Public School Stifles Kids Free Will

Public School Stifles Kids Free Will

Jared's Titles

The latest thing around here is wrestling. I don't care for it personally but the kids have gotten into it. Brennan got Smack Down vs. Raw and TNA impact for the PS2 and they play and then have their own matches. They have started watching Friday Night Smackdown on TV.

Jared has created at least 30 titles and these are just a few.

Cassie made this one.

Unconscious Mutterings

1. Divorce :: Court
2. Napkin :: holder
3. Camera :: lens
4. Leather :: jacket
5. Fractures :: bones
6. Flip out :: My son flips out
7. Coroner :: CSI
8. Atomic :: bomb
9. Liz :: Claiborne
10. Leave :: it to beaver and leave me alone it's a tie

Want to play?

Luna Nina

Thankful

Several of the blogs I read have a post titled Thankful Thursday.

Well it's Friday now but I just wanted to say I am extremely thankful for AIR CONDITIONING!!!!!!


We are having record high heat and humidity. I don't breathe well when it's muggy.
This is unusual for June, it's usually dry but we have had a rainy spring and there is a ton of moisture in the air.

Our van a/c is broken and I had some errands to run yeterday, I was melting to say the least.

I'm staying in the house today :)

Drawings

Jared is constantly drawing. It's almost like he needs to draw, it's part of him. He expresses himself and he draws about anything and everything.
I'm cleaning and sorting and packing away many of his pictures. I just wanted to post a few recent ones.

Link and Roy

Links from Zelda the four swords

Spongebob and Mr. Krabs

This is one of my favorites.

He has done a ton of wrestling ones lately also. I may post a few of the titles he made later.